A wonderful day depends on great planning.
If you have a wedding planner, so much the better.
However, here are some tips that will help you plan your own wedding & get all the parts in place on time
12 MONTHS BEFORE (if possible):
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Inform family & friends of date
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Arrange meeting with family
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Set a tentative date
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Determine budget & who pays for what
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Select & reserve ceremony & reception venues
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Choose bridal party & groomsmen
9 MONTHS BEFORE
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Select & order invitations and other stationery you may need
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Hire a wedding consultant (if you need one)
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Establish a gift registry
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Book a photographer/videographer
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Book a florist
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Sort out the music for the ceremony and reception – and book if needed
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Hire a caterer
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Choose a marriage celebrant
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Shop for a dress & schedule fittings if needed
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Select the bridal party’s gowns
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Establish a system for keeping track of gifts, party invitations & thank you notes
6 MONTHS BEFORE
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Work out ceremony & details including vows, decoration etc
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Choose ushers and any other assistants you may require
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Ask relatives and close friends not actually involved in the wedding, to help with tasks such as the guest register, identifying people for photos
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Meet with the officiant and work out the details of the marriage ceremony & pre-nuptial requirements
4 MONTHS BEFORE
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Arrange ceremony music selections with musicians or load onto i-Pod
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Set the guest list
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Arrange the honeymoon
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Get any required inoculations & visas
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Make arrangements for the rehearsal dinner
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Select and order the wedding rings
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Determine marriage license requirements
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Take dancing lessons if you want to
2 MONTHS BEFORE
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Address invitations
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Pick out formal wear for men & set up fittings
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Buy gifts for the attendants
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Arrange hen’s night/stag party with attendants
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Plan the rehearsal & dinner
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Choose accommodation for out of town guests
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Buy accessories – ring pillow, cake knife, guest book. Make favours
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Secure wedding transport
6 WEEKS BEFORE
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Mail invitations
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Extend homeowner’s insurance to cover wedding gifts
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Set up a display area for wedding gifts
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Design wedding programme & have it printed
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Set up insurance policies and change wills
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Purchase bride’s/groom’s gift
1 WEEK BEFORE
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Confirm musical programme
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Run through last minute details & confirm arrangements with florist & photographer
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Confirm numbers to reception venue
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Hold hen party/stag night
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Confirm rehearsal & wedding day plans with attendants
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Write thank you notes for gifts which have already arrived
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Get marriage license & put it in a safe place!
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Get wedding rings & put them in a safe place!
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Assemble bride’s wedding finery, including “something old” etc
1 DAY BEFORE
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Pack an emergency kit for the wedding – sewing kit, extra tights, makeup, safety pins, etc
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Pack for your honeymoon
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Have a manicure/pedicure
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Arrange for favours, knife, etc to be delivered to the caterer or reception venue
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Attend rehearsal
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Give bride/groom their present
THE WEDDING DAY
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Have your hair & makeup done
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Have your honeymoon luggage sent to the hotel or a secure area at the reception venue
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Make sure you have the ring & marriage license
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Take a moment with family
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Have a few moments on your own to relax & savour the day!
Mangawhai Weddings
Zahn Trotter
Phone: 09 431 4566
If you are looking to have your dream wedding in Mangawhai, this website is the place to start.
www.mangawhaiweddings.co.nz
Perry Trotter Photography
Ph: 09 431 4566
Mangawhai
Perry Trotter
www.perrytrotter.com
Single Fin Photography.
Ph 021 058 9526